Imagine the dignity of sexual restraint as the first lesson of budding adulthood. We enter sexual maturity as singles, not marrieds. Friends, brothers, sisters, children, parents, and strangers are never meant to become objects of sexualized attention. Every willing learner must learn (and often relearn) broad-spectrum self-control as a core expression of love. And those who eventually marry will find that there are seasons where sexual restraint is the form love takes. Imagine sexual desire freed